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Together with their families

Mara BellElliot Reed

Come hungry, come early, and save us a place at the table — we have been setting it for you for a long time.

Course one · the introductions

The two who set this table.

Mara Bell

Bride

Runs the farm-stand calendar the way other people run airlines, and keeps the list of who sat where at every dinner we have ever given.

Elliot Reed

Groom

Fixes anything with screws or patience, bakes the bread, and always brings one more chair than the table has room for.

Course two · the story

What brought us to this table.

Every good table begins with one empty chair. Ours began with a seat no one claimed at a friend's Friendsgiving — and the person who finally sat down in it.

The spare chair

The host had set one extra place, out of habit, and by the time the turkey made its round everyone had a seat but one chair sat empty. Mara walked in late, looked at it, and said, “Is this one saved?” Elliot answered that it was now. Nobody cleared that setting for the rest of the night.

Setting the table early

Seven years of the same dinner later, they were setting the table again — the same long one, before any guest arrived. Elliot stopped halfway through the place cards, dropped to one knee beside the cranberry napkins, and asked her to keep the seat next to his forever. She said yes before he had set it down.

Course three · until we gather

Until we gather.

3 days 13:53:04 to go

Course four · the feast

First we promise, then we feast.

Vows beneath the apple trees

Alder House Orchard

1 Orchard Lane, Rhinebeck, Hudson Valley, NY

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Dress code Warm layers, dark reds and greens

Chairs will be set on the west lawn, facing the sunset. The walk from the barn is a few hundred feet over grass, so leave the sharp heels in the car.

The harvest supper

Alder House Orchard

1 Orchard Lane, Rhinebeck, Hudson Valley, NY

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Dress code Warm layers, dark reds and greens

One long table in the barn, served family style. The candlelight makes everything look like it tastes better; the food will not need the help.

Fireside after-party

The Carriage Barn at Alder House

1 Orchard Lane, Rhinebeck, Hudson Valley, NY

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Dress code Shoes you can dance in

Cider, a fire, and the good records. The last shuttle leaves for the inn at 12:30, and the porch light will be on long after that.

Course five · the company

The hands beside ours.

Wren Calloway

Maid of honour

Mara's side

Mara's cousin and the keeper of the guest list since the Friendsgiving where nobody knew who was coming.

Sam Okafor

Best man

Elliot's side

Elliot's oldest friend; he drove the van that carried this table home nine years ago, and he will be the one toasting to it now.

June Bell

Officiant

Family

Mara's aunt, who will marry them at the orchard's edge. She has never once missed a place setting.

Course seven · the notes

Before you come.

What should we wear?

November in the Hudson Valley is honest about the cold. A warm coat, a layer underneath, and something dark red or green if you have it. The barn is heated; the lawn is not.

What about our feet?

The ceremony is a few hundred feet from the parking field over grass and fallen leaves. Boots or sturdy shoes will serve you better than anything narrow.

What if someone needs a special plate?

Tell us on your RSVP and the kitchen will set a place for you — vegetarian, gluten-free, allergies, all of it. The table is for everyone.

The Alder House Farmhouse

A block of rooms is held under Bell & Reed, ten minutes down the road. Book early — it fills with guests before the leaves are gone.

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Shuttles from Rhinebeck station

Two shuttles run from the Amtrak station to the orchard through the afternoon, and back again after the fire burns low.

The Hudson Valley Community Pantry

We have everything a table needs. If you would like to give, the pantry fills the tables of families nearby — a gift in our names goes twice as far.

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Course eight · your seat

Pull up a chair.

Kindly RSVP

Will you attend?